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Interesting post. It reminds me of something I was told when I was younger in the context of relationships: "The opposite of love is not hate but indifference." If you see a former flame out with someone else and you feel not longing, not regret, not hatred at the guy she's with or that she's not with you, but nothing -- that's all that really needs to be said. It also relates, I think, to Oscar Wilde's quote: "The best revenge is to live well."

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